Now comes the Southern District of New York?
Tell him to get his financial shit together and pay off the debt-THEN you’ll think about marrying him when he CONTINUES to prove capable of managing his finances. What it looks like is that he wants your credit to help him, but it won’t. It will drag yours down because you are associating yourself with a bad credit risk. I would also insist on a pre-nup that specifically states that all your finances will remain separate and that any money troubles he has will not be transferred to you when you kick him to the curb.
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