Delighted to be in my late 60’s and to, at last, understanding that wisdom is knowing what I don’t know.
Identifying bad behavior is a worth while endeavor. Labeling bad behavior as some how masculine of a toxic variety seems silly. I have seen many brutish toxic females. Culturally “toxic” women are “mean girls” while toxic men are bullies and sexual predators. Can’t oppress the oppressor?
Don’t just read the story, tell it: contribute your ideas and experience to the dialogue.