Leah Fessler is a writer based in New York City, obsessed with modern romantic sexual culture, Moby Dick and beets. She’d love to read your text messages or ask about your recent breakup. Leah graduated from Middlebury College last spring, and you can download her full thesis on hookup culture at www.hookupmiddlebury.weebly.com. Email her at leahfessler8@gmail.com.